BreakingNew study of 1,847 fathers reveals wives cause approximately twice the daily stress of children — Spouse-Related Stress Index scores 7.21 vs. 3.58 for Child-Related Stress — Effect size "well beyond what we typically see in behavioral science," says lead researcher — Full paper published in Journal of Domestic Behavioral Sciences
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Study Finds Wives Cause Men Twice as Much Stress as Children

A sweeping cross-sectional survey of nearly 1,850 married fathers reveals that spousal interactions generate roughly double the day-to-day stress of parenting demands — and the gap widens the longer the marriage lasts. The researchers call the effect size “well beyond what we typically see in behavioral science.”

7.21
Spouse Stress
3.58
Child Stress
2.01 : 1
Stress Ratio
1,847
Fathers Surveyed
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Study Finds Wives Cause Men Twice as Much Stress as Children

The full newspaper-style report with journalist byline, expert quotes, interactive charts, methodology breakdown, and reactions from marriage counselors.

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Journal of Domestic Behavioral Sciences • Vol. 47

Comparative Analysis of Perceived Stress Sources Among Married Fathers

The complete peer-reviewed-style journal article with abstract, methodology, statistical tables, 4 interactive figures, regression analysis, references, and survey appendix.

“My kids break my things. My wife breaks my spirit. The difference is that my kids feel bad about it afterward.”
— Anonymous survey respondent, Age 41, married 14 years
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